Take Five – used to tell someone to stop working and relax for a short period of time
Source: Cambridge Org – https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/take-five#google_vignette
In the last few weeks I have been taking some time away from work to help me relax and spend some downtime at home. I didn’t get to spend much time at home last year so I truly embraced the time.
1. Get Gardening – I few weeks ago we had our garden redesigned and this was difficult in the wintery months but in recent weeks, it has become more Springlike and I was looking forward to checking out plants and working with the new minimalist style. I have always been fond of gardening and miss the tropical plants and trees I grew up around in the Caribbean as I like in London. However, with almost 30 years of understanding British gardens and plants – I now know what will thrive in my garden and have a list of my favourite plants and love research them online or checking them on social media. Therefore, I was armed with a list of plants to source in recent weeks. I have visited about four garden centres in the last two weeks and spent a small fortune getting the plants I want. I don’t mind spending money on plants if they are perennials and will keep on giving in future years.
Some of the plants I listed were not yet available from the shops, such as Echinacea. However, I am sure to visit some more garden centres again.
I have noticed that younger homeowners are really into plants too so there are several new florists and plant shops in my neighbourhood. I think plants and gardening definitely have wellbeing and health benefits – the only risk is hurting myself with too much physical gardening! However I am looking forward to the imminent blooms. And last but not least, I am really pleased that I have booked two special garden visits already with close friends and looking forward to the Chelsea Flower Show in May.




2. Savour Good Food – I love cooking and experimenting with new recipes. My family are real foodies and I come from a rich heritage of cooking, baking and…eating! I know I am good at various recipes and have had real masterclasses from my Indo-Caribbean mother and Italian mother-in-law. Whilst I was on vacation (as the North Americans say) I have baked, make dishes that take more time, spent time browsing shelves in local food stores and tried some new restaurants. I recently visited a restaurant that does amazing brunches and they also have a special Mediterranean brunch. It was really good and I am looking forward to taking some of my female friends there for lunch.
I also went to the famous OXO Tower restaurant again for lunch on a very beautiful sunny day as a special treat. The dishes and the flavours were delicious and the ingredients are so innovative that it is good to savour the meal. I love the way that great chef out together creative dishes and have all the admiration in the world for them!
3. See some Films – I was just beginning my downtime at home when a family member started a series on Netflix. Normally I try to avoid series as I don’t have the time to look at time or the patience to deal with soap opera. However, I certainly got hooked on the series that I was looking at and it became the highlight of my evening to relax and discuss with my family and friends. The same thing happened at Christmas and actually… I think it great that we have this technology at home to enjoy great films. I always have things I want to see on a ‘normal’ weekend but sometimes don’t seem to fit them into my relaxing schedule but this time I certainly was able to enjoy a series.
I also went to local cinema to see the film Midwinter Break. I was one of the youngest persons in the cinema as it was about 3pm and all the other customers seemed to be pensioners as the film story was about an elderly couple visiting Amsterdam on holiday. I sometimes forget to go to the cinema as we didn’t have one locally for years but I hope that I can make time to see film in the cinema more often as the bigger screens and sound systems definitely add a bit of magic to films.
4. Window Shopping – I couldn’t get away from having some errands in my downtime so I had to go into town to see the optician. I was pleased to go to the nearest shopping mall near me at Westfield. I really appreciate having this about 30 minutes away as I used to have to go to Bluewater in Kent, which was about 1 hour plus away. I was able to check a couple of my favourite fashion shops and ended up ordering a dress that was on display but they did not have my size in stock. I had to turn away from all the bargains as I have too much clothes already.
I was able to admire all the lovely stuff in the homeware department at John Lewis and guess what…. I was able to buy some garden furniture that I have been researching for the last two months! I saw a table in stock that I did not see online and as my husband was with me – he agreed that it was good and we were able to buy it there and then.
I will be honest and say that I really am a natural online shopper now and I love click and collect for my favourite shops but it is great to still have retailers where you can still browse, touch and feel if you really would like to buy something. Anyway, a little retail therapy is good for the soul!
5. Going out for fun – As we go about our busy lives, there is a difference in taking time for leisure and fun things. Lately I am having to remind myself of this and having downtime has reminded me that sometimes I don’t have to go far to find fun things to do in my neighbourhood. There multiple pubs, a few museums, theatres and creatives venues a little future in central London. I have recently been to some local entertainment gigs but I will have to be more proactive and see some bigger and ‘more expensive and famous’ acts in the near future. I know the Spring weather is only starting and therefore there is a sense of making best use of the extra daylight time in the next few months. This is definitely what I intend to do to make sure I have quality downtime.
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































