We have all hear or seen these beautiful words to remind us of the place where we live or feel most comfortable.  The ‘happy place’ or ‘forever home’ are some of the more modern words that I see on social media.  I do have a sense of home and had to learn it the hard way when I left my happy home as a teenager to study in London.  I missed my parents, my friends, the socialising, family gatherings small and large, the space, the plants and the loving home in my formative years. I eventually got used to being a country and new home very far away from what I was used to on a tropical Caribbean Island.

I decided to write about homes this month as we are in the third cycle of doing ‘stuff’ around my home and garden.

I have been spending a lot of time looking at gardens, plants, interior designs and furniture. I always had a love of these things having helped my parent clean and care for our home.  I distinctly remember loving the plants and cutting flowers for vases and although I don’t do that so often in London – I have an appreciation of gardens and obviously interior designs.  I also recall doing a project for Home Economics when I was about 14-15 years on bedroom designs where I had some beautiful images from a catalogue belonging to my friend’s mum on soft furnishing and fabrics. I really enjoyed doing that essay or booklet but in those days in the 1980s, being an interior designer or gardener were not even discussed as a career choice, never mind encouraged. I do believe that times have changed with more opportunities for commercial interior designs and landscape gardening.

So although I am having to navigate around the mess the last couple of months have brought to my home, I am researching some of my favourite things and looking forward to when it is all completed. One of my favourite tip is using my local library card to access Libby for looking at online versions of some of the best homes and gardens magazines. Some of the well-known ones like House and Garden, Country Life and Good Housekeeping are free to view electronically with my local library login! However, I know printed copies are more leisurely for browsing but they are rather expensive to buy now.  I do sometimes treat myself if I have lots of leisure time but it is very rare then I do have so much spare time.  Talking about Country Life – I used to love looking at all the beautiful home in the magazine when we circulated it in printed copy in the 1990s.  The prices then for large expensive home is the price you probably pay for a tiny flat (apartment) in London.  However, I recently visited another library and the staff said that it is still very popular with their patrons!

I recently saw that the Open Gardens Scheme is running and it is now easily able online. I went a long time ago in my local area and was inspired by some of the creative gardens that Londoners do in smaller spaces.  I was also impressed with some long and narrow garden who had divided areas in made it interesting to explore.  I hope I can visit some gardens this Spring and Summer in and around London again.  As part of my research, I have been looking at local Estate Agents to see gardens for homes that are up for sale.  I do live in an area that has been ‘gentrified’ and have skyrocketed in value (like most parts of London), so the homeowners seem to have money to invest their lovely homes.  I recall in the 1990s having to get homes information in paper format from your Estates Agents and some of the conditions of the home then were appalling! The internet has definitely made homeowners proud of the visuals, buyers have more visual choices in requirements they need, and it may even shame you or devalue the price if your home is terrible to a prospective buyer. I know this is not the care for all homes for sale but I love getting inspiration from real homes that are on sale too.

This brings to mind those who do not have homes or who cannot even afford to buy their own homes.  I know different countries have different lifestyles – like renting in Germany, flats in Italy and massive homes with basements in North America as it is so new compared to Europe. There are also different climates and access to outdoor spaces depending on where you are in the world.  There are also a lot of people displaced in the world due to war, political or economic challenges.  I remember a friend who lived in a war-torn country but she said that her mum made sure that she was clean at bed time in the temporary home as it was part of their routine.  This has been resonating with me recently we don’t have a washing machine, cooker and kitchen sink whilst our new kitchen is being installed. We are adapting to microwave meals, a launderette and eating out for a few weeks whilst we cope with these changes.