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Home sweet Home

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We have all hear or seen these beautiful words to remind us of the place where we live or feel most comfortable.  The ‘happy place’ or ‘forever home’ are some of the more modern words that I see on social media.  I do have a sense of home and had to learn it the hard way when I left my happy home as a teenager to study in London.  I missed my parents, my friends, the socialising, family gatherings small and large, the space, the plants and the loving home in my formative years. I eventually got used to being a country and new home very far away from what I was used to on a tropical Caribbean Island.

I decided to write about homes this month as we are in the third cycle of doing ‘stuff’ around my home and garden.

I have been spending a lot of time looking at gardens, plants, interior designs and furniture. I always had a love of these things having helped my parent clean and care for our home.  I distinctly remember loving the plants and cutting flowers for vases and although I don’t do that so often in London – I have an appreciation of gardens and obviously interior designs.  I also recall doing a project for Home Economics when I was about 14-15 years on bedroom designs where I had some beautiful images from a catalogue belonging to my friend’s mum on soft furnishing and fabrics. I really enjoyed doing that essay or booklet but in those days in the 1980s, being an interior designer or gardener were not even discussed as a career choice, never mind encouraged. I do believe that times have changed with more opportunities for commercial interior designs and landscape gardening.

So although I am having to navigate around the mess the last couple of months have brought to my home, I am researching some of my favourite things and looking forward to when it is all completed. One of my favourite tip is using my local library card to access Libby for looking at online versions of some of the best homes and gardens magazines. Some of the well-known ones like House and Garden, Country Life and Good Housekeeping are free to view electronically with my local library login! However, I know printed copies are more leisurely for browsing but they are rather expensive to buy now.  I do sometimes treat myself if I have lots of leisure time but it is very rare then I do have so much spare time.  Talking about Country Life – I used to love looking at all the beautiful home in the magazine when we circulated it in printed copy in the 1990s.  The prices then for large expensive home is the price you probably pay for a tiny flat (apartment) in London.  However, I recently visited another library and the staff said that it is still very popular with their patrons!

I recently saw that the Open Gardens Scheme is running and it is now easily able online. I went a long time ago in my local area and was inspired by some of the creative gardens that Londoners do in smaller spaces.  I was also impressed with some long and narrow garden who had divided areas in made it interesting to explore.  I hope I can visit some gardens this Spring and Summer in and around London again.  As part of my research, I have been looking at local Estate Agents to see gardens for homes that are up for sale.  I do live in an area that has been ‘gentrified’ and have skyrocketed in value (like most parts of London), so the homeowners seem to have money to invest their lovely homes.  I recall in the 1990s having to get homes information in paper format from your Estates Agents and some of the conditions of the home then were appalling! The internet has definitely made homeowners proud of the visuals, buyers have more visual choices in requirements they need, and it may even shame you or devalue the price if your home is terrible to a prospective buyer. I know this is not the care for all homes for sale but I love getting inspiration from real homes that are on sale too.

This brings to mind those who do not have homes or who cannot even afford to buy their own homes.  I know different countries have different lifestyles – like renting in Germany, flats in Italy and massive homes with basements in North America as it is so new compared to Europe. There are also different climates and access to outdoor spaces depending on where you are in the world.  There are also a lot of people displaced in the world due to war, political or economic challenges.  I remember a friend who lived in a war-torn country but she said that her mum made sure that she was clean at bed time in the temporary home as it was part of their routine.  This has been resonating with me recently we don’t have a washing machine, cooker and kitchen sink whilst our new kitchen is being installed. We are adapting to microwave meals, a launderette and eating out for a few weeks whilst we cope with these changes.

Taking Five – Five ways to spend downtime

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Take Five – used to tell someone to stop working and relax for a short period of time

Source: Cambridge Org – https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/take-five#google_vignette

In the last few weeks I have been taking some time away from work to help me relax and spend some downtime at home.  I didn’t get to spend much time at home last year so I truly embraced the time.

1. Get Gardening – I few weeks ago we had our garden redesigned and this was difficult in the wintery months but in recent weeks, it has become more Springlike and I was looking forward to checking out plants and working with the new minimalist style.  I have always been fond of gardening and miss the tropical plants and trees I grew up around in the Caribbean as I like in London.  However, with almost 30 years of understanding British gardens and plants – I now know what will thrive in my garden and have a list of my favourite plants and love research them online or checking them on social media. Therefore, I was armed with a list of plants to source in recent weeks.   I have visited about four garden centres in the last two weeks and spent a small fortune getting the plants I want.  I don’t mind spending money on plants if they are perennials and will keep on giving in future years.

Some of the plants I listed were not yet available from the shops, such as Echinacea.  However, I am sure to visit some more garden centres again.

I have noticed that younger homeowners are really into plants too so there are several new florists and plant shops in my neighbourhood.  I think plants and gardening definitely have wellbeing and health benefits – the only risk is hurting myself with too much physical gardening! However I am looking forward to the imminent blooms. And last but not least, I am really pleased that I have booked two special garden visits already with close friends and looking forward to the Chelsea Flower Show in May.

2. Savour Good Food – I love cooking and experimenting with new recipes.  My family are real foodies and I come from a rich heritage of cooking, baking and…eating! I know I am good at various recipes and have had real masterclasses from my Indo-Caribbean mother and Italian mother-in-law.  Whilst I was on vacation (as the North Americans say) I have baked, make dishes that take more time, spent time browsing shelves in local food stores and tried some new restaurants.  I recently visited a restaurant that does amazing brunches and they also have a special Mediterranean brunch.  It was really good and I am looking forward to taking some of my female friends there for lunch.

I also went to the famous OXO Tower restaurant again for lunch on a very beautiful sunny day as a special treat.  The dishes and the flavours were delicious and the ingredients are so innovative that it is good to savour the meal.  I love the way that great chef out together creative dishes and have all the admiration in the world for them!

3. See some Films – I was just beginning my downtime at home when a family member started a series on Netflix.  Normally I try to avoid series as I don’t have the time to look at time or the patience to deal with soap opera.  However, I certainly got hooked on the series that I was looking at and it became the highlight of my evening to relax and discuss with my family and friends.  The same thing happened at Christmas and actually… I think it great that we have this technology at home to enjoy great films.  I always have things I want to see on a ‘normal’ weekend but sometimes don’t seem to fit them into my relaxing schedule but this time I certainly was able to enjoy a series.

I also went to local cinema to see the film Midwinter Break.  I was one of the youngest persons in the cinema as it was about 3pm and all the other customers seemed to be pensioners as the film story was about an elderly couple visiting Amsterdam on holiday.  I sometimes forget to go to the cinema as we didn’t have one locally for years but I hope that I can make time to see film in the cinema more often as the bigger screens and sound systems definitely add a bit of magic to films.

4. Window Shopping – I couldn’t get away from having some errands in my downtime so I had to go into town to see the optician.  I was pleased to go to the nearest shopping mall near me at Westfield.  I really appreciate having this about 30 minutes away as I used to have to go to Bluewater in Kent, which was about 1 hour plus away.  I was able to check a couple of my favourite fashion shops and ended up ordering a dress that was on display but they did not have my size in stock.  I had to turn away from all the bargains as I have too much clothes already. 

I was able to admire all the lovely stuff in the homeware department at John Lewis and guess what…. I was able to buy some garden furniture that I have been researching for the last two months! I saw a table in stock that I did not see online and as my husband was with me – he agreed that it was good and we were able to buy it there and then.

I will be honest and say that I really am a natural online shopper now and I love click and collect for my favourite shops but it is great to still have retailers where you can still browse, touch and feel if you really would like to buy something.  Anyway, a little retail therapy is good for the soul!

5. Going out for fun – As we go about our busy lives, there is a difference in taking time for leisure and fun things.  Lately I am having to remind myself of this and having downtime has reminded me that sometimes I don’t have to go far to find fun things to do in my neighbourhood.  There multiple pubs, a few museums, theatres and creatives venues a little future in central London. I have recently been to some local entertainment gigs but I will have to be more proactive and see some bigger and ‘more expensive and famous’ acts in the near future.  I know the Spring weather is only starting and therefore there is a sense of making best use of the extra daylight time in the next few months.  This is definitely what I intend to do to make sure I have quality downtime.